Words of Encouragement

Many have a difficult time understanding why people grieve so when their pets die. Well, if you’ve ever owned a pet, you become very close to them. You love them. You become so close that they become a part of your family! They are family!!! You love them deeply, and you grieve for them like you would a family member.
Twice I’ve grieved as such. Once when I lost a kitten who contracted parvovirus, and once when I lost my dog Starlon. I shocked myself. I was in a heap sobbing so violently that it surprised those close to me. I took off work and to bed for three days.Can I tell you it’s okay, it’s normal and grief hits us all differently. Don’t let anyone make you feel it’s not normal to grieve over your pet. Grieve your way! Cry your tears. Know it’s okay and be encouraged that you are not alone in this arena. God gave us the capacity to love, and that includes our animals too! Praying for the people who visit this page and are grieving the loss of your precious animal.
Ernestine Brown RN PHN MSN/CNS
Pastoral Care